Fight, Learn, And Overcome Your Daily Dread

By Janine Hughes


Life is our greatest teacher. Based on the decisions we choose and the paths we take, it will have its own consequences. It is scary to think that we hold our own destiny and ourselves are the only one to blame when things go into trouble or worse case scenario is the situation wherein it is beyond our control. Faith and personal beliefs are the two things that kept us going.

Our minds are powerful machines. It works like a computer but when troubles come unexpected or we made the wrong choice, regretting is the usual thing we do. Diverting your attention is the key. Some people have the skill to face their daily dread and use it in their own advantage. It is amazing to see people grow up and become wise.

Controlling your emotions is very hard especially when it is caused by heart break or something that is so important to you. It will take some time to heal and the process is not predictable as to when you have completely healed. You can use defense mechanisms but some fears and pains are still inside you unresolved. You better decide right away to get going and leave the past.

Courage occurs because of our fears. When we start fighting them off, the result is unstoppable courage. Having a partner or someone who hang on to is good. Sharing of fears and sadness will make you feel you are not alone. Better write down the fears you have and write the solutions. Be sure that your solutions are doable.

When you talk about doubts, these are those little voices in your mind telling you that you can't do it or you will fail! No shortcuts and easy road for recovery unless you are that determined and focused to your goal. Nothing can stop a person who has a clear goal in life. Problems come and go and so there is no permanent thing in this world.

If you do, regrets will haunt in the end and the rest of your life. Others believe that they will do their best everyday as if it is their last day on earth. It is really amazing knowing there are people thinking that way. They will surely no regrets at all because they decide it for their selves and what matters the most is that you are happy doing it.

If you blame other people then you do not entirely understood the whole thing. Decisions were made by you and done by you. They might have forced, intimidated, or induced you to act bad but still you know what's good from bad. When your life is run by other people, do not expect to call it life. Run your life!

Most go crazy, others go a little crazy. Psychiatrists and psychologists are there to help for a fee. Undergoing a medication and counseling will take much time and willingness to cooperate. It needs a good budget for professional fee but at least something good is about to come once the program is over.

You can go back to your previous self and work things out. Believe in yourself. Nothing is impossible when you believe in something good.




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